My So-Called Love Life

This site -- my anthology -- is the story of a man, a young man, trying to find his way to love. Experiencing everything in between and serving you his heart on a silver-freaking-platter to the naked eye, for the whole world to see; relate, indulge, delve, and hopefully learn from his mistakes. Happy Dating! Copyright © 2004-2011, "My So-Called Love Life" ® Mario Ion. All Rights Reserved.

Monday, October 18, 2004

“From Afar”


I’ve always assumed that the whole “Long Distance Relationship” was just another form of a Crush. You enjoy it so much, but you know deep down you can never fully have it, so you dwell in the feelings that have evolved from this though that’s all you can really do. But nowadays I’ve been clinging onto the idea that things really do happen for a reason.

Perhaps you meet somebody who’s so great and has everything you look for in a person, as well as everything in common with you, but the only factor is that they don’t live in the same city (or even State) that you do. But you can’t simply just forget about this person, because something this great can’t come along if it hasn’t a reason, right? Maybe “fate” took a wrong turn, where as in doing so; causes you to meet this person a little sooner than planned, or (to be more concise…) you were destined to meet this person, something was destined to evolve from this serene acquaintance but just not this very moment.

Maybe fate decided to take a shortcut and reach its way to you and show you what’s in store for you whilst in the process of practically being on the brink of giving up hope. Maybe meeting him was Life telling me to just hold on… he’s on his way. Or vice versa; maybe you’ll be on your way towards him? Whatever the circumstance… it’s bound to happen, just not this instance.

Everything happens for a reason, whether you believe it or not. Everything connects to something that changes the outcome of the battle, so to speak. There’s reasons why you can’t have something, reasons why you have to shut the fuck up and have a little patience. But for what it’s worth… it’s definitely worth something.

4 Comments:

Blogger John Michaels said...

Things do happen for a reason and even though at the moment you may not understand why. As I sit back and reflect on older experiences I can conclude that everything has a reason and sets your life into a butterfly effect. Some of these reasons have been good and some of them bad, but for even the bad ones I have still managed to pull out with something good as a result later down the road. Distance is only a problem if you let it play a factor. Mankind has learned to overcome distance with technological advances. But like the early settlers people still brave the distances in search for new lands and new loves. Deep down inside you know how it makes you feel and if it makes you feel better about yourself then it cannot be all that bad!

October 18, 2004 7:25 PM  
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October 18, 2004 7:26 PM  
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October 18, 2004 7:29 PM  
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