My So-Called Love Life

This site -- my anthology -- is the story of a man, a young man, trying to find his way to love. Experiencing everything in between and serving you his heart on a silver-freaking-platter to the naked eye, for the whole world to see; relate, indulge, delve, and hopefully learn from his mistakes. Happy Dating! Copyright © 2004-2011, "My So-Called Love Life" ® Mario Ion. All Rights Reserved.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Sex Ed 2010

There are a few good men in this world that are glorified by the actions they take. And the action we look towards the most is recurringly obvious - Sex. You see, sex in our modern society can be approached on so many different levels and in different ways, based on the purpose of the act itself. Personally I'm happy enough just pleasuring myself with my hand and some porno, while often times I need the presence of another man to reach a different level of climax.

I like to think men categorize themselves based on how they approach sex. There are those who fuck you and move on to the next one; those who make it a regular habit without any more strings than just to exclusively pleasure each other; the few shades of grey where a man approaches sex as means to getting closer to the other person, on an intimate level of course; and kind that consider sex the art of "making" love.

Sex has become quite the spectator sport, au contrair to what some of you may think. Media icons and celebrities alike share their bodies both on screen and paper to attract a large commodity of followers because, frankly, sex sells. We like seeing them in the act -- it arouses us, it stimulates our need for sexuality in our lives. While the blockbuster scenes are more steered towards arousing us sensually, the Pornography industry puts it all out there to arouse us sexually.

Men in our modern age make it a point to have as much sex as possible for whatever reason(s), whether they do it for a sport to keep their libido and blood-pressures active, or to tap into a subservient need to experience it with another person. I myself have always wondered what the big hype is, as I find sex to be easy -- I can do it with my hand. Sex for me is an approach to get more intimately familiarized with the person. The common man uses sex as a tool to become generally familiarized with the public, to make a name for himself or collect headcount for some twisted sense of sexual credential. It always bothered me that the term "Making Love" has become such the underdog, but alas, while few and far in between -- there are those who only allow sex to happen when they simply cannot get enough of the person; they look at intercourse as though they are penetrating into the person's mind, body, soul, and maybe even heart.

The term "Making Love" was derived way back when sex wasn't even as familiar to the common culture as it is now. When man can only do such a thing when he would bewed the mate he was destined for, or at least for marriage. ALA Seal the Deal much? I'd imagine that was the point. We've progressed passed such a tradition and evolved into a generation where sex is something you just do; be it to show interest in a person or even as an introduction, considering most equate sex with the shake of a hand.

The mystery remains as a subjective measure of what each individual person REALLY gets out of sex...
What's your excuse?


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