My So-Called Love Life

This site -- my anthology -- is the story of a man, a young man, trying to find his way to love. Experiencing everything in between and serving you his heart on a silver-freaking-platter to the naked eye, for the whole world to see; relate, indulge, delve, and hopefully learn from his mistakes. Happy Dating! Copyright © 2004-2011, "My So-Called Love Life" ® Mario Ion. All Rights Reserved.

Monday, March 08, 2004


Ever wonder what it would be like, to live this life without a care, without any desperation, without any hopes, without any fears, without any doubts? Yeah… you’d think it’d be pleasant. In fact, it wouldn’t. It would be as dull as Martha Stewart’s trial. See… In life, we need all these seemingly pointless hopes, desperations, fears, doubts… because it’s these ordeals that get us places. Whether it’s college, or a job, or even a relationship…. We just need them. We all get to a point in our lives where we attack ourselves with the ‘What ifs’ and ‘buts’, and we claim it isn’t normal, nor healthy for our emotions. But the truth is, it IS normal, it IS healthy. We need the ‘What ifs’ and ‘buts’ to debate certain decisions, or deal with certain situations. We can’t ALWAYS think positive about something. We all need to be negative at times. Some say pessimism isn’t any good… but I’m sure they’ve taken advantage of their pessimism to benefit from the outcomes. So why do we try to deny off our negative values, and try to elapse it for our positive values? I mean, it isn’t necessarily bad to have negative and positive views on varied subjects. It’s absolutely normal. It’s not like we’re positive, as human beings. We have negative facts about us. Negative point of views at times. So why deny it, when it’s part of who you are? It’s a factor between the entities of Positive and Negative theological examinations of all Life’s obstacles. When it comes to Optimism and Pessimism, why are they two different words when every human being is consisted of both?


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